Yes, you read that correctly.
I read somewhere at some point in my checkered past (yeah right) that the tone of voice used can be as seductive as anything else... thus a woman can read a shopping list and communicate desire, demand, passion... you know what I mean.
So I have tried it.
What, you think that I am not going to try something as simple as that? When it comes to ways to drive a man wild, I have been much more creative than that.
One thing I picked up in an acting class was that it is all about attitude.
SO, think sex, think, think desire... and then talk - about anything. It doesn't truly matter.
The hard part is not letting body language come into play.
Seriously, try it over the phone. When body language comes in to play, the man is blown out of his mind with desire (okay, I wish that were the case but, you know what I mean). Body language often follows attitude. If you are thinking sex and desire, chances are that this is going to be expressed in your voice as well as your posture etc.
No, I am not joking. Try it. I mean, seriously try it. Not as a joke, not thinking, "this is funny," Just try it. You have to let me know how it goes.
However, don't go thinking that men are truly that easy. Okay, according to men I know, they are truly that easy. If a woman wants them, they might just be willing to give her the benefit of the doubt - or consider themselves quite the stud. Either way, it leaves them feeling fabulous.
I think it might work the other way around as well...
Yes, women might be drawn into the desire and emotion conveyed in the voice of a man.
Not that men use this power very often... that would be too easy. They like to make flirting more difficult than it truly has to be. (I love you guys, no worries)
But honestly, I love a guy's voice when it gets that certain something going on. You know what I am talking about... when their hormones color the voice just... so.....
I find myself waiting... watching for the kiss, wanting the kiss... just wanting to be touched. And it is all about the voice. I don't care what he is saying, it is "how" he is saying it that counts.
When used correctly, the voice can be a powerful tool - it can work magic...
And we won't even talk about what happens when that voice, that tone, is whispered into my ear...