"Men are checking you out all the time."
"Oh please, they are not."
"I would love to get you on the stand for this argument."
"I can't see that they are checking me out, but I know that they aren't"
Okay, there isn't much logic to my statement (the last above) but... it is the truth. I just assume that they aren't checking me out because my vision doesn't permit me to see if they are or they aren't!
And this frustrates my legal friend because men, as stated above, do check me out.
It is a discussion that we have from time to time with me not buying into it and lawyer having no way of proving it. It is a stalemate. I am of the opinion that, were men "checking me out" they could approach and chat. But that isn't how it works.
Men and women flirt with their eyes. They flirt with glances, eye contact, winks, and smiles. Women invite men to approach with... their eyes.
What happens when you remove the ability to make eye contact? The ability to see and return appreciative and inviting glances"
You have discussions like the one above.
This is not to say that I can't see the guy at 5 paces talking to my chest. I can see him doing it. But I can't see the guy undressing me 10 or more feet away. I can't see him smile and wink because he thinks I am looking and smiling at him. I suppose, I appear uninterested at best and otherwise oblivious.
*Sigh*
5 comments:
Well maybe you need glasses? ;)
I generally have no flippin' idea if I'm being checked out. Generally, I think this is a good thing.
they don't approach hot women. Hot women are scary. Men are wussies these days
Teri - They don't always work!
JR - Usually I think that is a good thing too, but sometimes, just sometimes, it is nice to know that you are being checked out!
Doozie - Ah, that explains everything! ;)
Well, if not glasses, what about contacts? :)
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