There are men out there that honestly, and I am not joking here, make me swoon. I mean really, I want to smile and laugh and flirt and simply tell them...
"if you change your mind, I'm the first in line"
I not only want to tell them, but I want to lower my voice and use that most seductive of tones...
"Honey, I'm still free..."
I mean, these are amazing men. Intelligent, funny, great friends, and easy on the eyes (if you know what I mean)
"Take a chance on me..."
These are great guys that any woman, and I mean any woman, would be thrilled to have sharing her life and yet... these men are single. And I, well, I am just a friend.
"If you need me, let me know, gonna be around."
I want to flutter my eyelashes, give that "come hither" smile, and twitch my hips in that most seductive of female ways.
"If you’ve got no place to go, if you’re feeling down"
Run my fingers through hair, kiss lightly along jaw line to ear, meld into their bodies, work magic with my hands and...
"If you’re all alone when the pretty birds have flown"
But I am the friend, just one of the guys. Great for a laugh, for listening and chatting and those heated conversations that aren't to be taken personally.
"Honey I’m still free"
It is hard to be the friend. The friend who sees how fabulous these guys are. The friend who is good for everything except the romance.
"Take a chance on me"
These are men that know me, hear my secrets, know I am fabulous, know that I am all about follow through, and yet, they pursue women right and left. The cute petite younger women, the sultry and sophisticated older women, the women that are as good as they can get or the women that come along at just the right time. The women that have a certain look, a certain intellect, a certain zip code...
"Gonna do my very best and it isn't no lie"
Is it just that the chemistry isn't there? Or is it that they see an image that they desire and I don't fit that mold? Or do they even see me for who I am over the friend that they enjoy.
"If you put me to the test, if you let me try"
And yet, if they only knew... the things I could do... I mean honestly, These are great guys, guys that fuel my creativity and passion. Men that have the minds and the bodies that inspire. That spark in my eyes, it is the kind of mischief that men like.
"Honey I'm still free"
How to seduce a man into seeing the possibilities? How to spark his desire to see and explore all that could be? Mind, body, spirit... I am intrigued by it all and willing to explore...
"Take a chance on me"
(Words from ABBA - Take a Chance on Me)