Proud of Them?

Before I start this post, let me say that I enjoy reading Outdoor Living.  Aaron has interesting things to say and great pictures - and his girlfriend and he take fabulous little trips. 

 

On this post, Aaron commented that I seem to mention my breasts a lot - I must be proud of them.  I would like to thank him for pointing this out to me as I honestly didn't know that I had mentioned them that often.  I also decided that I will dedicate this post to him. 

 

Ladies, you can either read the remainder of this post or come back again tomorrow when I will return to the topics you expect to find. 

 

And, for Aaron...

 

 

 

For me, to be frank, breasts are an aspect of the female body.  Men have them too, and they are often under appreciated, but that is a different post.  In this sense, I don't see mine as being any different.  

 

Am I proud of them?  Now, this intrigued me.  It intrigued me all the more when I received a similar statement from "That Guy" who is a breast connoisseur from his glory days:  "The other thing that makes them great is that you are proud of them, which is pretty sexy..."

 

I never, truly, thought of them as something about which I was proud.  I mean, I don't do anything or haven't done anything that resulted in my  being built as I am.  It is all about genetics.  

 

Most of the time, I honestly don't even know that they are there.  I mean, I do, but as I have written in the past, I like to think of myself as a mind more than I consider my body. 

 

That said, I am aware of the power of the female form.  I am equally aware of the ability to use that power to capture the attention of men.  It is not a power I misuse or use in a negative manner.  If I use it at all, it is purely for fun.  

 

Because I think so little  about them, it fascinated me that men are drawn to them as they are.  One of those differences between men and women that I find intriguing.  So again, I consulted "That Guy..."  This is a true conundrum for me as men have breasts too.  There is nothing but size that separates the male and female breast (most of the time).  What makes my breasts different?  "Big, but firm  (and yet soft).  But what makes them stand out is your nipples.  Some girls that have large breasts have really big nipples, especially the part surrounding the nipples themselves.  Yours are perfectly sized."  Men make such a science of the subject.

 

perhaps men are more impressed with my breasts than am I.  For me, frankly, they are more of a pain than an asset.  Clothes don't often fit correctly; I can't wear the clothes I often want to wear; they can get sore; they deter from the attention that should be given to my mind and abilities; and they run the risk of sagging in a few decades. 

 

That said, they are well shaped; can be used to attract a man's attention; do add to the shape of my dresses etc in a delightful way; can be loads of fun in the right situation; and are, to be frank, simply part of me. 

 

I am not sure that I would say that I am proud of my breasts.  I am aware of them and all that they bring to my life - the good and the bad.  I am confident in who I am - and they are part of that person.  Love 'em or leave 'em, these babies are simply a part of me!